Chris Brown and the Entertainment Industry
This blog post has been a long time coming, so please, forgive me for getting on my soap box. What I need to say is important.
I’m angry that Chris Brown is still a household name, and that he’s still making millions of dollars. If there were any justice, that man would have been forgotten the day he beat up his girlfriend. Instead, he’s a Grammy award winner, and he continues to post petulant tweets hurled at his “haters”. What he doesn’t understand is that people rightfully dislike him because he is an abuser, and that not everyone is going to forgive him. Instead of throwing temper tantrums, his best course of action would be to show the world that he has “changed”. By losing his temper, I see that he has not learned a thing from what he did.
Chris Brown in court.
What is worst is that there are women out there who make light of his actions. It makes me so sad. These women simply don’t understand what it would be like to be hit or abused by someone you love and trust. How being abused emotionally, physically or sexually sticks with you, and impacts your self-esteem. Domestic violence by either gender is NOT RIGHT. And by allowing this man to perform at an awards ceremony and make millions of dollars, we are telling young, impressionable people that domestic violence is acceptable. The women who tweeted that they want to be beat by Brown are, by and large, very young. Someone needs to talk to them, and teach them that they are worth far more than a man who will abuse them. They are worth being loved and treasured. You do not hit someone you love. Period. I think part of the problem is that young women often find something romantic about “bad boys”. I get it, and I think all women (and men, I’m assuming) go through that phase. But people need to realize that they deserve a life partner who loves them and will treat them with respect. Don’t stay with someone who talks down to you or tells you that you aren’t good enough. And if someone hits you, leave for somewhere safe immediately, and call the police.
Brown’s genre of music is far from my preferred music, so this may not mean much coming from me, but I have not listened to a single song of his since his arrest. I also have not watched any program where he makes an appearance. I steadfastly refuse to support the man in any way, shape or form. I’ve been involved in several debates about the merits of his career, and I find that it gets my blood pressure up real high. Just the fact that he still makes millions of dollars makes me so angry.
This article is the best I’ve read about this whole debacle, and sums up my feelings perfectly.
A note regarding the coming week:
I will be on a “business trip” of sorts this week, and I will not be able to update my blog until Friday (likely Saturday) at the very earliest. So don’t worry if I disappear from the online world this week!








